The Courage To Say “Yes”

By Revd Canon Deborah Parsons, Canon Chancellor

I recently read about the art of practising micro-courage. People were asked to reflect on when they last felt truly alive in what they were doing and to take one small step towards it.

In a society where three in ten people usually say “no” to opportunities, for fear of over-extending themselves, they were encouraged to consider whether the invitation aligned with what they wanted or who they were becoming and to embrace a growth mindset instead.

Of course, sometimes we say no to an invitation or opportunity with good reason but, societally, some people have become so concerned with protecting themselves that saying “no” has become their default response. The goal was never, no, but rather, conscious choice. Often the most courageous and life-giving thing we can do is to say a wholehearted, eyes open, “yes!”

The Feast of the Blessed Virgin Mary, which we celebrate on Sunday, invites us to reflect on the remarkable faith, humility and courage of the woman chosen to bear the Son of God.

Marys life was not one of privilege or ease, but of trust in Gods promises, even when the path before her was uncertain.

Her response to the angel: Let it be with me according to your word” remains one of the most profound expressions of faithful obedience in Scripture.

Throughout the Gospels, Mary accompanies Jesus with quiet devotion. She treasures Gods work in her heart, stands beside her Son at the foot of the Cross, and shares in the joy of the Resurrection through the life of the early Church.

Her example reminds us that holiness is often found not in extraordinary deeds, but in steadfast love, patient hope and daily faithfulness.

For Christians, Mary is honoured, not only as the Mother of Jesus but also as a model disciple. She points beyond herself to Christ, encouraging all who follow her example to listen to Gods Word and to put it into practice.

Her song, the Magnificat, continues to inspire us to seek justice, to lift up the lowly and to rejoice in Gods mercy.

As we celebrate this feast, may we give thanks for Marys witness and ask for the grace to imitate her trust and openness to Gods will.

In a world often marked by uncertainty and distraction, her quiet confidence in Gods love offers hope, encouragement and a faithful example for us all.